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Anghraine ([personal profile] anghraine) wrote2024-02-29 03:07 pm

Tumblr crosspost (28 September 2020)

I reblogged a post about the value of platonic relationships and specifically about not regarding or treating them as lesser forms of love, and added:

Tagged: #tbh wish that a lot of people who say they feel this way actually did #'it's not lesser just DIFFERENT' yeah sure jan

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[personal profile] meridian_rose 2024-03-01 10:13 am (UTC)(link)
Fandom is much about the sex and so often dismissive of "friends" that I keep thinking I should write meta about something between the "a/b" and "a&b" something for family, for like brothers-in-arms/would die for each other, for platonic but soulmate-like levels of friendship. The & can be just co-workers who like each other in a fic.
And then I think sure it would muddy the waters and no-one wants that, and no-one else really cares. But every time I see someone complain about the "only tag / for romance" I feel it's a discussion we should haven.

TLDR; I hear you ♥