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[anghraine]

Sometimes the distinction between "female but alienated from hetero conceptions of femininity" and "agender but tired" is not as strong as I'd like it to be.

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[zero_pixel_count]

Ugh, yeah.

For myself - I mean, about myself - I have kind of just given up on ever figuring it out or particularly caring what pronouns people use for me, so long as they don't attach assumptions to them. Because yeah, maybe I'm angry about the expectations people have 'because I'm a woman', or maybe I'm not actually a woman, who knows, working it out just seems like far too much hard work.

[anghraine]

Haha, yeah. I certainly don't feel like I was born a woman, but the extent to which I maybe am one but also am maybe not is just... super unclear and super tiring, so I mostly ignore it.