Tumblr crosspost (26 February 2021)
May. 18th, 2024 11:03 pmTagged: #learning how to walk #i mean. personally ;) #my first ship was either ariel/eric or (much less consciously) adora/catra so...
I like male characters individually, I very easily identify with them, and I enjoy their relationships and dynamics with others of any genders. But when it comes to romance, 90% of the time I do not give a single fuck if there aren’t one or more women involved. So I keep seeing these posts about how this m/m ship or that one is what gay people really want, or how only straights would like X, or how m/m shipping is part of being a lesbian in fandom or whatever, and it’s just like … speak for yourself, sis.
(Look. My femslash and het ships are not activism. But they are impacted by my orientation because it deeply influences how I engage with romantic content. This is probably true of most people! But it doesn't give any of us a claim to dictate how the're going to interact for everyone!)