anghraine: a female half-elf with shoulder length hair in 3/4 profile (larissa (unimpressed))
Hey all. :\

I have a post on Tumblr about it that I imagine most of you have already seen. The short version would be that this doesn't feel as bad as Trump's first victory did—I had told myself over and over that this could happen, that it would come down to political trends thousands of miles away from where I live, etc. But my brain is telling me it's actually much worse. Trump scraped a victory in 2016 with a deck stacked very heavily in his favor, and without certainty about what his administration would really look like given that he's a lying blowhard, via the electoral college but against the will of the greater number of voters. That didn't mean he wasn't president, but getting fucked over by outdated mechanics of government set up by long-dead men is not the same as getting fucked over by fellow citizens who are very much alive and who know, or have the ability to easily find out, about the policies of the first Trump administration. Kamala Harris, whatever her faults, did not have anything like the baggage of HRC and yet the people of this country were far more willing to vote for Trump against her.

I've been quietly enraged for hours in a way I don't often get—I get annoyed, and sometimes I get normal angry, but like ... in 2016 I broke down crying over and over, and I haven't done anything of that. I feel cold but not numb. The last time I felt this kind of frozen hatred was when a relative told me he'd struck a plea bargain about statutory rape with a sixteen-year-old student and was telling me so I didn't find out about it in the news. I didn't get upset as such, or feel immediately angry, or fight with him about it. I simply didn't care whether he lived or died for years afterwards.

There's this awful review of The Borgias that condemns Jeremy Irons's performance as Alexander VI/Rodrigo Borgia, because the reviewer claimed Irons lacks the appropriate "fire" to play Rodrigo—he admits that Irons does play him with a kind of fire, but says that Irons "burns with the steely flame of the North, not Latin fire." I thought this was a hilarious and very stupid characterization of both Alexander VI and Jeremy Irons, and told my best friend J about it, and it's entered our friendship lexicon. But he (my bff) has remarked a couple times that when I get truly, genuinely angry, it is absolutely a Steely Flame of the North situation. And I'm definitely feeling that now—not numb, not sad, not shocked, not screaming, just kind of hard.

I will say that, despite dutifully voting for him in the primaries, Bernie's "this is happening because of the Democrats turning their backs on working-class people, they lost the white ones to Trump and now they're deservingly losing Latino and Black ones" shtick is even more contemptible than usual IMO. Yeah, he's hammering it into his The Class War Is The Only War constant replay loop, but I don't know why the fuck he's associating this with Black voters. From what data we have at this point, the talk about Black men switching from Biden to Trump came out to a shift of four points from 2020 in exit polls (which, while done carefully, are known to be rough estimates—that's in the realm of statistical noise) and even if you did treat them as 100% accurate, the exit polls have Black female support for Trump actually dropping three points from 2020. (Union households favored Harris, btw.) Maybe he referenced Black voters to avoid sounding like he's scapegoating Latine voters specifically (who did shift towards Trump, especially men), maybe he's talking about lower turnout, but I think it's honestly super shitty to associate Black voters with this loss when a) there are many other more proximate causes, b) many Black voters are deliberately disenfranchised by their state governments and deal with more obstacles to voting than virtually any other group, and c) Black voters have been and remain unambiguously the most stalwart Democratic demographic apart from LGBT people (iirc the only group even slightly close is Jewish people—the same exit polls have them at 78% Democratic to Black voters' 85%, with Black women specifically at 91% for Harris). Lumping Black voters in with almost anyone else flattens a truly vast divide.
anghraine: an armored female half-elf lifts a glowing hand with magic light coalescing beneath it (larissa (magic))
I'm glad it's arrived after a very weird summer. I'm doing a bunch of things with my mother and my housemate Ash (it's my mother's birthday and she suggested a "girl's day out" with us), trying to keep up with academia, etc. I stuck a bunch of posts I wanted to either make or respond to in my Tumblr drafts (the drafts folder is now at 845 lol), and am hoping I'll find the time to better organize my tags over here, so I'm not constantly running into my 2000 tag maximum. And I need to do a lot of grading. And I want to actually play the final version of BG3, now that Patch 7 is out and I've got mods working the way I want. And I want to revise my novel ... someday I'll find the time!

In any case, happy birthday to Jimmy Carter as well! I'm really glad he made it to 100 and hope he manages to fulfill his plan to vote for Harris/Walz.
anghraine: vader extending his lightsaber; text: and now for the airing of grievances! (Default)
For context: my best friend J is an ultra-ultra-dedicated Star Trek fan. I saw re-runs as a kid and had a lot of lingering goodwill towards TNG in particular, but not especially clear memories apart from First Contact (J and I had a beloved English teacher in high school who assigned it to our class :D). I haven't watched much of the newer stuff, even. I saw two JJ Abrams films (the first seemed a perfectly fine film if slightly vacuous—it felt rather more like SW than ST in some ways, but not enough to be fully satisfying as either, while the sequel sucked in a "we should have seen TROS coming" way). I haven't seen any Discovery, Prodigy, Lower Decks, or Picard episodes, just two episodes of SNW that were okay, but not really my thing. They're polished, but struck me as rather unambitious in a ST context. That said, J really, really loves other ST (he considers it basically his religion, despite decidedly rough patches such as Picard) and I hadn't seen any of the older stuff in ages, so I was thinking vaguely of catching up with some old school ST.

Meanwhile, we were negotiating our next Media Experience awhile back, and he really wants me to watch Andor. In part, this is so we can talk about it, and in part because he genuinely thinks I'd like it apart from his admission that it handles Cassian oddly given his characterization in Rogue One, but he thinks I could overlook this in the face of the show's greatness. (He does not do social media and does not fully grasp the extent of my Rogue One!Cassian stanning.) We were talking it over and I was trying to evade committing myself to watching Andor and was suddenly struck by a burst of Machiavellian genius.

him: I think you really would love it if you'd give it a chance.
me: I have a counter-proposal, since the last thing we watched was also your idea.
him: ...yeah? A different Star Wars?
me: No. Star Trek.
him: ...
him: ...
him: O_O
him: ...like, Discovery or...?
me: No. I've been meaning to catch up with the older shows, since I don't remember them very well, except bits of The Next Generation.
him: Wow. Okay. Um, well, which one ... it can't be Deep Space Nine because we're watching that later in the summer, and Voyager is, well, I love it, but like a three-legged dog. I can't really recommend starting there. But we could watch some highlights of TNG...
me: I wasn't really thinking of a highlights reel experience...
him: O_O
him: I guess we could actually start with the original series, though there are some complications with the early episodes and multiple pilots and everything, and, well, sometimes it's extremely 60s...
me: Okay, let's see!

So while this originated in a cunning plot to evade Andor by throwing in all of Star Trek in front of him like a red flag in front of a bull, I didn't want to only be using his favorite thing as a delaying tactic, obviously. I definitely wanted to give ST a fair shot and think about it and try to engage properly, etc.

I don't always have time for it, but so far we've watched the following episodes (in this order):

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She-Ra meets rambling (very rambling) personal/family angst:

So, I’ve mentioned that She-Ra was one of my first fandoms, for a loose value of “fandom.” I was too young for the original show itself (it came out a year before I was born), but my aunt wasn’t, and she gave me all her She-Ra books and figurines, which were the only superhero-ish things I ever loved. And I loved them with my entire five-year-old soul!

In fact, I loved them for several years afterwards, and only reluctantly surrendered the books/figurines when my aunt asked if I still had them. I wasn’t really ever a “now I’m Mature and the things I used to like are Cringy and Bad” person, so I retained a strong affection even when I was older and enjoying more advanced things.

As did my aunt, who is only five and a half years older than I am. She was like my cool older sister for a long time, even though we were very different people, and I vaguely associated this relationship with She-Ra in my head. Regardless, we played together, we shared clothes and toys, she taught me how to ride horses, etc, until we drifted apart.

That happened partly because five years was actually vast at certain ages, partly because my parents moved, but mostly because of our enormous differences in personality and interests. Still, I continued to think of her as Cool Big Sis until various things happened that led to her becoming much more insular and conservative, even for a pretty conservative family (my centrist parents are radical leftists by their standards).

The Bush administration kicked off around the time I started high school, and by the time I graduated, I was determined not to ever vote for any Republican for the rest of my life (I enthusiastically voted for Kerry in my first election and was baffled that so many people I knew hadn’t bothered or, worse, actually voted for Bush out of ~patriotism). End result: I’ve been a firm and reliable Democratic voter for sixteen years, while my aunt gets more far-right every year (…and day, it feels like).

And it’s like … she long ago ceased to be “cool” given that she’s become a raging bigot (by nearly all accounts more than she ever was before, so not just something I missed because I was a kid). She dismisses the racism my father experiences when she's not personally perpetuating it, she’s ~so much for the tolerant left~ about her homophobia (and I’m lesbian), she’s awful and goes off on these asinine screeds to my mother every. single. day. Like, she earnestly argued the other day that Kate Brown is an agent of Satan.

Meanwhile, back when the new She-Ra was about to come out, she heard about it and excitedly forwarded me the link. Whatever else our differences, it’s our thing!

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I reblogged this kind of hilarious map of the USA by a truck driver who's driven through most of it.

Tagged: #lmaoooo #the pnw's west side does have dry stretches but during a pretty narrow segment of the year #so i'll give him that one ;)

/grump

May. 1st, 2024 04:38 pm
anghraine: vader extending his lightsaber; text: and now for the airing of grievances! (Default)
I guess, theoretically, it's possible that there are allistic people who have some acceptable, non-shitty reason for their strong opinions about the removal of Asperger's Syndrome as a distinct diagnosis from autism.

But ngl I don't think I have ever seen a rationale that didn't come down to "now the diagnosis includes people who are disabled enough to annoy me but not enough for me to pity them." Maybe with a side implication of "if people who can mask are autistic then autism doesn't mean anything!!!!!"

The legacy of AS is complex and fraught among actual autistic people (especially given that the phasing out of AS for reasons of diagnostic unreliability was followed shortly thereafter by exposés of what an absolute monster Hans Asperger was). But allistic people who are super affronted about autistic people they consider insufficiently disabled are just—why do you care? In what way is this your business? What is the mysterious reason you're so very bothered by the wrong kind of autistic people?

Also, honestly, vanishingly few of these people seem to be a) psychologists in any sense, b) at all familiar with the diagnostic problems with AS vs HFA before the exposés about Hans Asperger's, uh, practices [CW Nazis], and c) sometimes have no idea what Asperger did or what purpose the distinctions between autistic groups served.

I'm personally in a kind of weird position wrt AS altogether because I was diagnosed as an adult and went through various tests over about 10 years between my mid-20s and mid-30s. Even the first suggestion of something related to autism going on with me happened right before the DSM-V was released and I had no involvement in AS-centered communities or anything. The suggestion that I might have AS or HFA didn't surprise me at all, though as a psych major I scrupulously avoided diagnosing myself or anyone else [the psychology students at my uni had been taught that those were The Rules and I've always been deeply concerned with Rules, I'm sure for autism-unrelated reasons]. But I was so overwhelmed by the apparatus of US psychological health care and just how many unfamiliar social interactions and transportation difficulties it involved that it took me a good ten years to navigate it all. I went from a university psychologist I was seeing in undergrad for anxiety/disassociation/depression who went "that sounds like it could be related to autism" to various clinicians repeatedly identifying me as autistic according to the DSM-V to "formally tested and diagnosed with a specialist's recommendation detailing support needs." So I was never actually diagnosed with AS or HFA or whatever, just ASD. The fact that navigating the system was such a lengthy nightmare primarily because of symptoms of autism certainly adds a fillip of irony to the whole thing, though!
anghraine: a photo of green rolling hills against a purply sky (hertfordshire) (herts)
I've been thinking about ways in which Austen criticism has often fallen down wrt class analysis. Back in the 90s Julia Prewitt Brown wrote a "review" that is actually a guided tour through the failings of feminist analysis of Austen due to many things, but one of them was a failure of substantive class analysis in terms of gender. But I still see a lot of what she was talking about in both academia and more fandom or pop culture oriented interpretations—I'm inclined to think particularly when it comes from a contemporary US perspective.

I have way more thoughts about this than I have time to articulate, but I think US fans and academics in particular (though not exclusively) struggle to understand class in Austen's novels or other literature of the time in a way that is not simplified and enormously dependent on largely unfamiliar formal or legal categories rather than complex, sometimes contradictory or unpredictable, highly, highly striated structures that a quick consult of population breakdowns or tables of precedence is not going to explain. And at the same time, I think we (speaking as a US American!) often focus on the more (to us) exotic elements of 18th and early 19th-century British class dynamics rather than analyzing those dynamics in terms of class interests. These interests aren't purely financial (the understanding of class priorities purely in direct financial terms also seems very much a US perspective on it—maybe not exclusively again, idk).

Easy example, but: analysis of class in P&P tends to focus overwhelmingly on questions of exact legal status, precedence and large-scale categories (military, clergy, gentry, upper vs lower servants...), and reported income. And those things matter, for sure. But this tends to neglect how the characters perceive their own class interests (and how accurate their perception may or may not be), who their "natural" allies are, what larger social structures they benefit from or fail to benefit from (again, not only financially, though also that), their conflicts and alliances. Anne de Bourgh and Charlotte Lucas likely have either the same or quite similar ranks in formalized terms before Charlotte's marriage (as daughters of knights*) and are just about exact contemporaries, but the class structures around them are very different in ways that extend even beyond Anne's vast inheritance and Charlotte's lack of one. The image of Charlotte standing in the cold wind while a closely supervised Anne talks at her from her phaeton without any awareness of Charlotte's possible discomfort makes this seem especially stark.

This is even more glaringly apparent in something like William Godwin's Caleb Williams, in which the terrifying, relentless extent of aristocratic power over common people is represented by a country squire with six thousand a year. Legally that squire, Falkland, is no less a commoner than Caleb himself (relatedly, every member of the extended Fitzwilliam family appearing in P&P are also legally commoners). But that doesn't tell you anything about the sheer degree of power afforded Falkland and what six thousand a year signifies beyond direct buying power (that is very wealthy for the country gentry of the 1790s; it turns out a major part of his income, significantly, derives from slave plantations rather than his property in England; moreover, Falkland is able to bring power to bear everywhere Caleb goes in a way that only partly involves direct purchases).

I do seriously have to go write other things, but I wanted to get some part of this out of my head before I forget.

*Anne de Bourgh could be the daughter of a baronet rather than a knight, and thus higher-ranking than Charlotte in terms of strict precedence, but a) the distinction in precedence is so unimportant to understanding what she represents in class terms that we aren't told, and b) Sir Lewis is more likely to have been a knight than baronet IMO from what contextual information we do have.
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Until I posted about the resuscitation of Voyager 1, my activity bar over on Tumblr was split pretty evenly between responses to a P&P post that had been reblogged by a BNF and various people who are extremely into The Borgias discovering my back catalogue. Before the P&P post reblog, the activity bar was ... like, 90% Borgias reblogs and likes. And good for them, it's still my favorite TV show ever!

In any case, this is probably why I included my brief quasi-epistolary modern US American politics Borgias AU from 2016 in my random list of fics in this post. I did re-read it before finishing that post and had fun immersing myself in all the little details that went into the AU. I'd originally hoped to write more of it, but writing a US politics AU was ... a more difficult prospect after Trump's election and I never did. Still, there's quite a bit that I'd already nailed down and forgotten later.

I did remember that one element of the basic premise is that this version of the Borgia family is not (recently) from Valencia or Italy. Rodrigo is the son of immigrants to the US from Ecuador and rose against adversity to wealth and political power. After serving as a capable Speaker of the House, Rodrigo beats the Republican presidential nominee "Julius Rove" (Giuliano della Rovere) and in the same election cycle, Rodrigo's seat in the House is won by his young nephew César (Cesare, of course). And I remembered that the story was primarily told via excerpts from news headlines and clippings (in fact it's entirely told that way because I never wrote the rest).

Other details I didn't remember:
  • These Borgias are Californians! West Coast, best coast. :D
  • Rodrigo's first VP is Katharine Powers (Caterina Sforza). In the fic, this relationship had yet to go horribly awry, but I had plans for a later disaster.
  • I had a brief aside about Rove delaying a formal concession to Rodrigo. Although the fic was posted in July of 2016, you didn't need foresight to imagine that being a RL concern later, though I certainly didn't anticipate the form it would take in 2021.
  • Vanozza is Rodrigo's ex-wife, Vanessa Gautier, a Canadian actress from Montréal who raised not only their children but the orphaned César as well. I seem to vaguely recall that she was a fairly minor public figure at the time of their divorce, years before the election, known mainly for a well-regarded performance as Empress Theodora in Byzantium, a made-up film that is very different from the actual Byzantium film directed by Neil Jordan (creator of The Borgias; I am pretty sure this was a convoluted shout-out that amused me at the time). Vanessa's very PR-savvy daughter Lucrecia jokes that her first public appearance was in Byzantium (Vanessa was pregnant with her at the time; I'm sure this was a reference to Carrie Fisher's jokes about her "performance" in Tammy, when Debbie Reynolds was pregnant with her).
  • Since then, Vanessa has worked her way into more consistently prominent roles and is now a very well-known movie star in her own right, especially following her role in a massively successful HBO epic fantasy TV series that is this universe's version of Game of Thrones, but based instead on David and Leigh Eddings' Elenium and Tamuli novels (Vanessa plays Sephrenia but brings a bit of Lena Headey-as-Cersei energy to the role).
  • I still kind of love this element (with a very major reservation discussed below) of a bizarro world hit fantasy series based on a completely different book series being embedded into an AU about the Borgias navigating US politics as a Democratic political dynasty along the lines of the Kennedys, but obviously dealing with a very different world and other pressures like, uh, racism.
  • There's also a reference to Lucrezia's rivalry with Sancia d'Aragona in the show; Lucrecia's first actual public appearance was not political but rather, at a big entertainment event with Vanessa. Lucrecia managed to upstage the new superstar Sasha Darby.
  • There's a reference to a photograph of Lucrecia with César at a political event, in which she is of course wearing Valentino (this still amuses me).
So just after that, I was visiting my parents and saw that my dad is re-reading The Belgariad, the most popular of David and Leigh Eddings's fantasy series (but The Elenium is better, fight me). We talked a little about it and of course, I also thought of my random The Elenium adaptation subplot in the Borgias politics AU I'd just been re-reading, and remembered that I'd actually once had an idea inspired by the fic subplot for an Elenium fancast that draws entirely from the actual cast of Game of Thrones. I don't remember the specifics since I never did it, except (of course) Lena Headey as Sephrenia and I think Peter Dinklage as Stragen. Charles Dance as Dolmant??? I kind of like the idea of Nathalie Emmanuel as Ehlana, but there are multiple options.

I should add that David and Leigh Eddings are high-octane problematic figures in SF/F. The Belgariad especially includes a lot of misogyny and racism, and is, let's say, politically ambiguous in general. Moreover, it became well-known after David and Leigh Eddings's deaths that decades earlier, he and Leigh had adopted two children, abused the son, and the children were taken away by the state. The Eddingses separately served a year in prison for the abuse at a time when this was rarely punished at all. The knowledge of this makes all subsequent re-reads feel very surreal, given the prominence in the novels of weird yet idealized kids who turn out to be literal gods. (The linked post also discusses reading the Eddings books, especially the Belgariad-centered ones, in light of this.)

I had personally been very invested in the Eddingses' novels as a teenager/young adult; they were formative experiences for me as a fantasy fan and I have strong feelings about basically every aspect of all of them up to and including The Redemption of Althalus. I kept my collection of Eddings books after finding out what they'd done, since they were dead anyway at that point, but it feels weird to talk about them without mentioning the level of baggage around them. Apparently David was an alcoholic (extremely unsurprising), Leigh was generally violent, and he considered divorce, but never went through with it. Eventually several strokes left her unable to write or speak, though David continued to credit her as co-author, and he himself had increasingly severe dementia and required constant care in his last years while still writing. They had become extremely wealthy and left their millions to medical research and need-based scholarships at Reed College, his alma mater. So the legacy is a LOT and, as I said, it feels odd to talk about their work without acknowledging it.
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I reblogged a screenshot of an official Tweet from Senator Raphael Warnock (D-GA), which includes a photograph of him standing next to his senatorial office in the Capitol with his name by the door. In the Tweet, he remarks that he was being arrested by the Capitol police for nonviolent protest the previous time he was there, and this time they were just showing him to his office there.

Tagged: #:D
anghraine: leia in early esb smiling (leia [smiling])
More political schadenfreude:


[A screenshot from a news headline reading "Sen. Minority Leader Mitch McConnell makes remarks"]

hahahaha
anghraine: leia in rotj with the sun shining through her hair (leia [illuminated hair])
Mood is currently a mix of “phew” and “FUCK YEAH”

Tagged: #trifecta!!!
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I reblogged a gif of dancing crabs overlaid with "TRUMP IS GONE," as one does.

Tagged: #THANK GOD #i just watched the whole inauguration and spent it being like 'nothing go wrong nothing go wrong' #and 45 is out :D
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I reblogged this and added:

And, other events aside, congratulations to Sen.-elect Jon Ossoff (D-GA)!!!!

anghraine: choppy water on a misty day (sea)
I didn’t think (i.e., dare hope) the Senate was realistically in reach, but seems like it is! Congrats to Sen.-elect Raphael Warnock (D-GA). :D

Tagged: #and seriously ... shout-out to georgia democrats and democratic voters for making this possible #both policy-wise and schadenfreude-wise
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I just noticed that my Facebook background is still Portland, which is … not where I actually live these days, but also I’m in exile and I suffer

Tagged: #i like wa better than or but portland better than literally anything in wa ... idk #cascadia ftw #i do love it all! just ... portland ;_;

Whew

Mar. 13th, 2024 09:28 pm
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I got into a debate with a friend that touched on the Ottoman genocides, I went to do some research to make sure I was remembering details correctly, fell down a rabbit hole of research, and wow I'm not sleeping tonight.

The conversational aside was specifically about the assassination of Talaat Pasha, which also happened on March 15th. My birthday! I mean, not my birthday at the time, obviously—I would not be born until many decades later—but it is certainly a day for the annals of history. I cherish and respect Tumblr's hatred of Julius Caesar, but he's got nothing on Talaat Pasha. I wish I believed in hell specifically so I could believe he's burning in it.

(Fun fact: my grandmother, who is Greek, used to hint darkly about some misdeed of "the Turks" that she's still got a grudge about, and for years, I thought she was just being vaguely Islamophobic. I did eventually get the impression of something happening not long before she was born, maybe. But I was still really unsure about any details until I was digging through some articles on a trip during my master's program and discovered that "vague misdeeds" were entire fucking genocides that my own country, the USA, did not find it politically convenient to acknowledge until years later.)
anghraine: leia c. esb, jaw dropping (leia [shocked])
I’m kind of morbidly curious if the Joseph Epstein arguing today that Jill Biden shouldn’t call herself “Dr Biden” is the same Joseph Epstein who called Stephen Greenblatt a brain tumor on academia in the 90s.

Tagged: #i mentioned the latter in passing in my 16th cent exam and suddenly saw the name again and was like... the fuck? #and it went down from there
anghraine: a black and white picture of a large city clock with roman numerals (clock)
It’s not that the last four years haven’t been weird and awful, but this election has been really, really strange.

Tagged: #the now deeply conservative scotus just went 'bzuh?' at texas's case and it's like #yeah. 'bzuh?' is pretty much my feeling too

[ETA 3/13/2024: This is somewhat "huh" to read in retrospect—I didn't see the insurrection coming at all, but I feel like "something weird is in the air" was basically the right instinct!]
anghraine: judy parfitt as lady catherine de bourgh in the 1980 p&p; text: #girlboss (lady catherine [heart])
LOL, the previous post suddenly made me think that part of the reason I’m so amused by the idea that all the different branches of Darcy’s family slightly look down on each other is that it’s pretty much what my family is like?

Mother’s family: both sides are English, but some come from … like, “at some point we were important but fell on hard times for four generations” and look down on the “we were coal miners in Derbyshire and kept dying so we ended up here” side, who think the former group are pretentious assholes.

Both sides look down on my adoptive father’s side, because they’re racist and he’s Mexican. They prefer my bio father, who has a Very Checkered Past, since he’s white, although they also have issues with his mother being Greek and used to “joke” with her about it (Anglo grandma: but she never laughed, weird).

Bio father’s family: mix of Irish and Greek. Apparently the Greek side didn’t want Grandma to marry my grandfather bc he wasn’t Greek, while the Irish side didn’t want him to marry Grandma because she is, and her parents were immigrants. To this day, most of the Irish side doesn’t associate with the Irish-Greek side bc they’re somehow still hung up on it. Grandma, meanwhile, looks down on Mother’s family as trashy.

It’s all some mix of entertaining and exhausting.

Tagged: #i do have other reasons for the headcanon but like... i've never pretended i don't project onto darcy #i hadn't really thought about it in this way though #austen blogging #but mostly just my family blogging
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This anon said:

(hi nervous anon again) okay full disclosure, I’m not even american and maybe I have no right to be stressed about this election, but I WAS and now that the race has been called, I wanna say congratulations!! You guys did it!!! 🎉

I replied:

Thank you so much!! It’s such a relief.

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