Tumblr crosspost (16 October 2020)
Mar. 3rd, 2024 10:22 pm♥ faramir
I replied:
♥ = family headcanon
Normally I would go for either the holy quartet of Denethor, Finduilas, Boromir, and Faramir or something to do with Lothíriel, but I’ve actually been thinking about something else—not really to do with blood.
So, one of the responsibilities of the Steward is representing the king when he’s away (rather than this falling to another member of the royal family). This is why Mardil was running things after Eärnur rode off. So when Aragorn is off at war, Faramir would generally be the one ruling Gondor. And apparently there are a lot of wars in the earlier decades of Aragorn’s reign that send Aragorn and Éomer abroad pretty often.
Meanwhile, Arwen is … you know, right there. So my basic headcanon is that Faramir and Arwen at first have a tentative respect that leads Faramir and Arwen to consult with each other about the management of Gondor even though Faramir is technically in charge. And that the initial tentative respect deepens into real friendship, all the more as they have certain common interests and priorities (I imagine Arwen is also a lover of music and lore, say).
(And, more unhappily, they have common fates; in some ways they’re the last gasps of fading peoples, ‘springless autumn,’ and they’re each going to watch the one they love die before them.)
I imagine that Eldarion and his sisters are born in the midst of all this (as are Elfwinë and his siblings in Rohan, but that’s a different story). Arwen, I think, wants her children with her as much as possible, while Faramir is also frequently with her for administrative/friendship reasons, so he’s around the children a lot. I think he’d be good with children, and—anyway, this is a lot of words to say that my headcanon is that he’s not only good with these ones, but quickly becomes an affectionate uncle in all but name to the prince and princesses, and they love him in turn. :’)